Wednesday 26 August 2015

I choose not to place DIS in MY ABILITY

You meet thousands of people every day in and out and there are times when some people you meet changes your cognizance of life. That what happened when i met Kikishah. He is suffering from duchenne muscular dystrophy (a genetic disease which causes weakening of muscle and a person finds difficult to walk, run, jump and climb stairs. As the person gets older only the arms work properly and rest body totally handicapped). Besides being physically handicapped he can't even speak and hear properly.

Since he was totally handicapped his family, his wife and all his relatives left him by telling him that he is a burden for all. He spent years in loneliness with his pains, his sorrows and his struggle all of his own. He has a single room to live . His room also serve as a work place for him.


It has been 42 years since he is ironing clothes to earn his living. He works for 8 hours a day and even do his household works on his own. When i inquired that what makes him work that hard ? he said, "Begging was though an easy option. I could make anyone have pity on me and help me in making my daily bread but i found that my soul had not been handicapped yet and that helped me work for myself ".

Disability is not a curse according to me , rather it is a boon because a few non-functional parts defines the real part of people in your life. The one who see a disability before he see you gives you an idea that where your strength is really residing. All you have to do is make that strength in you an inspiration to others and those who choose to discriminate will be forced to appreciate :) ;)


22 comments:

  1. your posts are really amazing. i mean i haven't read something so deep ever !!too gud :) (y)

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  2. Im glad to read ur writings.. absolutely remarkable job.. keep it up 😊

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  3. Well written !! Keep it up 😊 gbu

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  4. Nyc 2 know few people still cares not abt them but 4 the betterment of society well done keep it up about this this guy really.....I mean he got recluse nature thats rare .... guys like them live life on their own....... yr blog really inspired me .... I would like to read more abt self reliant people's ..... KEEP IT UP

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    1. Ya people don't care about them that's y i write such stories so that people, if can't care about them yet have a good cognizance about such people. well ! thanks :)

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  5. Showing sympathy to others is good thing FOR YOURSELF & just your sympathy didn't makes him normal. Only matters is what are you doing for him to make him happy.
    God creates us,so that he makes us different from each other.Not everyone is perfect some are tall some are dwarf & others are handicapped like him.Every human being in this world is different in some aspect.But what is the thing that unite us all:that Is HAPPINESS. Human being choose his own destiny;destiny that have two path , one is happiness(light) and other that leads to sadness(Dark).

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    1. He is already normal. who says that he is not normal ? Just its that he have some physical issues but that have not stopped him from being happy. I have written his story so that people can have good cognizance about such people and takes them as normal people. Valuing their ability will inspire you more rather than looking at their disability :)

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    2. You know what is being normal .Being normal is the usual & expected state of yourself. Suffering from duchenne muscular dystrophy & (MY GOD) he even speak n hear properly.This isn't normal.

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  6. They don't need cognizance about themselves.They needs our helping hand ( A SPARK OF HAPPINESS. THAT MAKES THEIR LIFE STRONGER)

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  7. The people around him are helping him and here no such things are being discussed. I have written his story just to inspire people cause all are not same some people are there like him.

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